How a Breast Cancer Survivor Turned her Journey into an Empowering Platform
Posted: November 08, 2023 | Word Count: 2,007
Diagnosed with breast cancer nearly four years ago at the age of 41, Krisdee Clark*, like many women, was completely taken aback. What laid ahead for her was an inspiring journey of personal growth and recovery. Not only would she harness her own resilience and grace to thrive after treatment, but she would also channel her experience and strength to inspire change. In doing so, she'd create a meaningful platform to support other women who were going through similar struggles.
Facing a diagnosis with numerous hurdles
After feeling a lump and some minor discomfort while in the shower, Krisdee quickly made an appointment with her gynecologist who advised her to have a mammogram and diagnostic ultrasound. A week later, doctors scheduled a biopsy and shared the news of her diagnosis: invasive lobular carcinoma, a form of breast cancer that begins in the milk ducts.
To make a difficult situation even harder, the diagnosis arrived during her husband’s deployment overseas and coincided with the onset of COVID-19.
"The moment I was diagnosed, I knew I had to handle it with grace," explained Krisdee, a mother of two young children plus three “bonus children.” "I had to show my daughter that we could get through this. I had to show my son what it was like to be a woman and go through something like this, in case he ever has someone in his life who ends up in a similar situation. That was very important to me."
In addition to the weight of coping with her diagnosis, Krisdee struggled to find the right surgeon who could not only assure the successful removal of cancer but also instill confidence in the reconstruction of her breasts afterward.
Her grace was tested when the initial surgical oncologist she saw commented on her bringing an entourage to her appointment, which included having her husband join via FaceTime since he was deployed. Following this incident, Krisdee's desire for a double mastectomy was met with resistance, and the plastic surgeon she consulted with offered little reassurance, telling her that while she would never look the same post-reconstruction, the cancer would be removed, and she should be happy with that.
Krisdee left the appointment in tears, knowing there had to be other options. "I struggled because a lot of people had the view that once the cancer's gone you should be happy," she said. "Removing the cancer was number one, but at 41 years old, I wasn't ready to just accept that this is what I'd look like. It was very disheartening, and I knew there had to be more options."
Moving forward with grace
Throughout her very trying journey, Krisdee drew strength from within and the support of her loved ones to continue searching for a doctor that she knew would be the best fit for her.
This is when Krisdee's husband, an employee of Johnson & Johnson, sought advice from a colleague at Mentor Worldwide LLC, the #1 global brand in breast aesthetics, and another company within J&J. What Krisdee learned was invaluable: find a plastic surgeon who also specializes in reconstruction because they will work in partnership with some of the best surgical oncologists. Through this contact, Krisdee found surgeons Dr. Garrett Harper and Dr. Peter Turk, who actively involved her in every step of her treatment and reconstruction journey and gave her hope.
At the time of her diagnosis, Krisdee was initially informed of a 2 mm mass in her breast. However, a subsequent MRI showed the mass was closer to 5 mm and near her lymph nodes. In March 2020, just over a month after her diagnosis, and with the support of family, friends, and her doctors, Krisdee underwent a bilateral mastectomy (double mastectomy) and the mass was discovered to be significantly larger, measuring at 7.7cm. During her surgery, she had MENTOR® Breast Tissue Expanders placed to increase the amount of breast tissue needed prior to her having breast reconstruction with MENTOR® Breast Implants.
Turning struggle into strength
Like many women facing a breast cancer diagnosis, Krisdee was searching for answers, not just from a medical perspective, but from the shared experiences of women going through similar challenges. Frustrated by the absence of information, she decided to create The Blonde Bombshell, a blog that evolved into a much larger platform for Krisdee — offering a vital online community for women seeking resources, connections, and inspiration.
"I've spoken to many women who were talked out of reconstruction or dismissed by doctors. I'm thankful I found doctors that listened to me," Krisdee said. "I use my blog and platform to educate others about what to expect — and things I wish I knew before I was diagnosed. I want to be a resource for others because I wanted resources so badly."
Surprised by the global traction her blog was getting, Krisdee considered additional platforms to broaden her impact on raising awareness. Her aim was to ensure that women no longer felt isolated during their breast cancer journeys.
It had been years since she was a teenager in a state beauty pageant, but Krisdee recalled its potential for driving awareness and change. Motivated by this memory, Krisdee re-entered the pageant world, first winning the title of Mrs. Capital City in South Carolina only 8 months post-reconstruction. Shortly after, in April 2022, Krisdee was crowned Mrs. South Carolina American. Her journey continued on the national stage, where, just three months later, she took home the crown and national title of Mrs. American 2022.
Winning Mrs. American presented Krisdee with opportunities for public speaking, connecting with fellow survivors, and discovering a deeper meaning in her cancer journey. She's since joined Susan G. Komen for the Cure, serving as the Keynote Speaker for their Advocacy Day in Washington, DC, and recently shared her story on the Real Pink Podcast. During her reign, Krisdee also visited women cancer warriors at Walter Reed Medical Center.
Through her journey, Krisdee wants women to have answers to their questions and assurance that they are not walking this path alone. Her platform is clear: Women can thrive and still feel beautiful after breast cancer.
"It was important to me that I didn't let cancer define me," Krisdee said. "I really believe that was my mindset from the beginning. It was very important to always have the outlook that I was bigger than cancer, and I would defeat this."
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To learn more about Krisdee’s journey, visit www.KrisdeeClark.com.
*Krisdee Clark is being compensated by Mentor for her time and participation in sharing her story.
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